Essex: Kids should "act less gay" to avoid being bullied

Teachers allegedly told bullied children to act “less gay” if they want to end their torment.

In a damning report by Essex County Council, pupils revealed they had been accused of making themselves a target for bullies by choosing to behave or look differently.

As well as criticising their supposed sexuality, teachers reportedly told youngsters to “wear their hair differently” if they wanted to avoid trouble.

The pupils spoke out at meeting for more than 250 children and teachers from schools across the county, hosted by the county council in March, to tackle issues affecting youngsters.

Julie Keating, County Hall’s anti-bullying principal officer, said: “The young people are working to make links with training colleges, to see if they can have some impact on the training new teachers receive on how to respond to and deal with bullying issues.

“They are keen to develop an assertiveness package that can be used to support young people being bullied and will be receiving training later in the year to help them with this project.”

Comments(6)

Votisit says...
4:53pm Wed 2 Nov 11

The word "gay" no longer means homosexual. I don't condone the teachers using this word but it's been taken out of context. Gay now means, silly, or stupid, or not cool. The word has been changed by this generation of children and the teachers are using it with the current meaning.

Bhudeeka says...
8:40am Thu 3 Nov 11

my understanding is that the original meaning of gay was happy and joyous and i much prefer that meaning

Ali Wilkin says...
10:13am Thu 3 Nov 11

Until you have had to deal with a child who has been on the end of homophobic bullying, it is difficult for people to understand just how horrendous it can be for the child and the family.

Well done to those young people for speaking up and working to change this situation.

The Yellow Peril says...
11:47am Thu 3 Nov 11

Of course gay means homosexual. It didn't used to but I'm afraid it does now and it is used commonly - by some people who are openly "gay" and happy about using the word. Why not?

I thought people were much more comfortable with same sex relationships generally and so you would have thought bullying would have largely dired up on this topic.

I guess kids will bully others for any reason but being gay isn't the worse thing in the world is it? Or ginger or a bit over-weight?

animania says...
8:16pm Fri 4 Nov 11

what does it matter if someone is homosexual, or dresses in a certain way, its their life and they shouldnt be told how to act their own life. i find it dissgusting what some of the young people say about people who are homosexual or just asct or look a diffirent way. i fully support those phew young people out thier who will fight to change this situation.
well done

Brentt says...
12:22pm Mon 7 Nov 11

oh dear, i don't remember any of the gays at schooll being bullied. It seems unlikely. Probably best to get the person who used the term to say what he/she meant really - the information can't be put to good use if its ambiguous.

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